Sunday 1 September 2013

Angry maybe?

Okay so here i am starting a blog cause i need to write down my thoughts. Well, an incident tonight made me take the decision and make this blog. I'm very frustrated with my parents. They just won't accept my decisions and my opinions. They won't let me bring my boyfriend home. Why? Because he belongs to a different socioeconomic place than we are. So what mates?? He's the one i'm dating and love with the whole of my heart. So just get over it won't you already? It's been 7 months... For some people it's not much time for others it's an eternity but for me it is a respected enough period of time for you to want to meet the guy your daughter is dating. I mean come on you should want to meet him right? Well i guess not cause you are way far from open-minded. How ironic since you claim to be that kind of people. You know sometimes i just don't get you. Okay he's not so educated as I am and he has different goals and dreams from me but who the hell cares he makes me happy that's what I know. I mean he's so sweet and he always respects my decisions whether he likes them or not. So why should you make things so difficult for me? So difficult for us, for our relationship we are more than happy to have. A parent should be a guardian where he's supposed to protect you but at the same time respect your own decisions as an individual. I just don't get you sorry. So disappointed right now. I'm done from reaching out for you. Completely done.

6 comments:

  1. Everyone had arguments with parents that is a part of growing up, eventually you can make your own life decisions. I agree sometimes blogging is a great way to vent your thoughts. Good luck with the blogging xoxo

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    1. wow i didn't expect anyone to read this... how did you find me?! and well yeah eventually i will be able to make my own decisions but i'm just so sad right now and my bf is too and we are like in so distant and it's killing me... but i'll get through it...

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  2. At the end of the day parents just want the best for you, you need to show them that you have the best...thats what your saying right? I hope for your sake that your parents will eventually accept your relationship. xo

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    1. Well the thing is they won't let me show them what i have:/ and well i'm still hoping but you know i'm starting to get a little too desperate! if they really wanted me to be happy they wouldn't get their noses into my business and accept my boyfriend like he is. A sweetheart in other words:)

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  3. I wish your parents would have a more open mind and that they'd get to know your boyfriend before completely shutting him down. But sometimes parents never accept their kids' mates. But if you're happy, maybe they can be happy for you. I hope.

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    1. Thanks for taking the time to read this:) Well the thing is my parents never used to categorize people and it is just so disturbing. I hope they will eventually accept him because we have something it's not just a silly relationship. And well yeah i'm more than happy in this relationship but I guess for them this fact is not enough.

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